By Jerr Rrej,
My philosophy of “To be a man is to bear the responsibility of all things” has already helped countless men. The phrase itself is a key that opens the consciousness and creates success in a man’s life. This thread will go into depth on the reason for this. Read on.
Let us breakdown how assumption of responsibility is precursor to assumption of authority. It is the one who believes that a task must be completed who assumes authority over it. But this does not mean he does the work but assumes responsibility for delegation. Ownership of job
This is why a man in a job who worries about not just one task, but the entire project’s success will be seen as authority over the task even if he is not the boss. Assumption of responsibility is viewed as key to authority to those who promote.
Ownership transcends slavery.
When a man acts like he owns something, others will join that frame-of-thought. Men in employment who show lack of ownership over their work will be viewed as irresponsible and will be overlooked for promotion by authority.
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Now let us dig deeper into how this philosophy effects a man’s relationship with a female. A woman is designed to follow authority but only trust a man who assumes responsibility first for not just her but the entire relationship.
She wants to be OWNED which allows her relief. What a man must realize is that assumption of authority is a silent resolve. It is action and not just talk.
A man who just acts like a boss will become one. He does not need to ask others to obey him or get approval for his own perception before assuming authority.
This is why reasoning with a woman about submission is a futile act. But let us dig deeper. A woman is designed to test a man’s rationale and authority. This is why a female will assume “Devil’s advocate” when he reasons with her. Redirect, deflect and project.
So, what is the SECRET? When a man assumes total responsibility over a woman, he is unconsciously telling that she is absolutely irresponsible. And a person that is absolutely irresponsible by design is blameless. How does this make a woman feel?
She will be relieved that she has such a strong leader to follow but more specifically, she will play Devil’s advocate and naturally disagree with a man by taking blame for her own behaviorism.
Something she would rarely if ever do with a man who shares responsibility.
But the secret goes beyond mind control of a female end effects a man’s own mind. When something is everything, it also becomes nothing. To assume responsibility is to be irrational in assumption of authority which is like biting off more than we can chew.
When nothing is a female’s fault, and everything is a man’s fault is a way we can DETACH from the role of leader. When everything in a man’s reality is his own responsibility, including his female, he protects his over assumption of authority with detachment or “It is what it is”
This is the key to my philosophy that I teach men. Absolute authority requires detachment of emotions because we must “Get the job done” which means to quickly learn and restart. Success is all that matters, and failures happen.
Over attachment to failure slows down progress.
The more a man rises in power over this world the more detached he becomes to the world. This is required for leadership. We do not worry about our own personal failures in pain that slows down but detach for ultimate focus for problem solving.
This is masculine frame.
Jerr Rrej is the author of The Wall Speaks.
The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame.