By Jerr Rrej,
Men in our times are more like wet blankets than rocks with their women. These men rely on their women emotionally and depend on them for comfort. These men are like children who depend on their mommas. Sad. This thread will explain why a man should be a rock for his woman.
What does it mean to be someone’s rock? It means to be the stable presence in their life. It means to showcase confidence that cures doubt. It means to showcase bravery when others are afraid. To be someone’s rock is be an anchor for them during bad times.
A female is always having bad times. This is because of her high anxiety and great uncertainty of self. She is always in doubt and fear about herself and reality. This is why females seek out confident males in our selection. They crave male confidence because it is polarity.
The Wall Speaks book is about masculine frame, it teaches how to live with one woman. Frame is not about promiscuity.
How can a man be a rock for his woman? Remember, rocks are stable, heavy and cold. A man needs to not be emotionally unstable and inconsistent with his masculine frame. He needs to have a heavy or serious presence which projects authority that can be relied upon.
A man needs to be cold in emotion which means he needs to have control over them. He does not let emotion rule his behaviors like a woman which allows women to trust his behaviors. He is steady, heavy and cold like a rock which acts as anchor to a woman’s stormy chaos.
Keep practicing frame. Keep your mind rational and cold. Keep your own behaviorism consistent and not moody like a female. This is what it means to be frame and this is what it means to be steady like a rock. Shoulders back. Chin towards God.
Jerr Rrej is the author of The Wall Speaks.
The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame.