By Jerr Rrej,
If a man knows women, he will know that they like to test. Even women themselves will admit that they test men. This thread will go into detail on why women test and how a man can overcome these tests. Read on.
A woman is designed to test masculine authority. This is because she must reassure her that the man is worthy of impregnating her and that he will make a good leader for her while she is incapacitated with child in womb. It is that simple.
The Wall Speaks book is about masculine frame, it teaches how to live with one woman. Frame is not about promiscuity.
What a woman is testing is the man’s confidence in his own authority. Does he put up with disrespect? Can be easily made emotional? Does he get angry and lose control over himself when tested? Women will innately poke at a man to figure this out.
When a man fails test by either being too passive or by being overly reactive is a failure of a test. This is true of women testing us and this is true of men testing us. To pass is to correct in a calm spirit. It is calm charisma that helps us pass tests.
There are two key points to remember when being tested. Being calm and being assertive. Leaders gain confidence in their authority by STANDING UP AND BEING COLLECTED. It is fine measurement that gets most respect. Measurement is authority of self and projects power.
Not all women test equally. If a woman is fatherless or has had a weak father, she will be more in doubt over male authority which will compel her to test masculine authority more than a woman who had a strong masculine figure growing up.
Do not get angry. Do not lose patience. And do not be passive. Stand up for yourself. Do not put up with small disrespects because they will turn into big disrespects. Let your woman know from the start that you do not like being disrespected. No relationship without respect.
Jerr Rrej is the author of The Wall Speaks.
The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame.