By Jerr Rrej,
A lot of this current generation have been raised on video game playing. We live in a digital world and have been trained to deal with it from infancy. Is video game playing masculine? Why do women hate it when men play games? Read on.
Are video games masculine? A video game is a form of enertainment and there is nothing wrong with enertainment in moderation. When a man is masculine, he will have high ambition which creates stress. This means he will need ways to disconnect and let go of that stress.
It can be incredibly hard for me to stop thinking and escape my head. A reason why I am prolific in writing. But this also means that disconnecting from my ambition can be a magic trick. Occasional video game playing can help me break out of my workaholic mentality.
Are some video games more masculine than others? No, this is an illusion. All games are just a way to disconnect from reality for a moment. Sometimes I will play Mario games as a way to disconnect. A game is meant to transport us and allow us to break free from reality for a bit
What a man needs to realize about game playing is that the greatest predators indulge in play. It is a way to test novel configurations in our environment. Animals that play are higher in intelligence. They realize that reality is a game which helps them to outwit prey.
The Wall Speaks book is about masculine frame, it teaches how to live with one woman. Frame is not about promiscuity.
Why do women hate when men play video games? Because they must depend on a man’s ambition for provider-ship and they view it as an abandonment of that responsibility. A lot of guys will play video games as an escape from reailty. Of course, this spikes anxiety in their females.
A man can indulge in trivial fun to disconnect from is stress when he has real world stress. This is why a man should not play video games when he is not pursuing his real world ambition. Remember, video games are for fun, they are ways to past time, not true fulfillment.
Learn a real-world skill. Build a business. Build a career. Create something in the world. Use video games as a way to relax but do not use them as a crutch. Do not waste an entire life in a digital fantasy. This is masculine frame. Believe in your power in this world.
Jerr Rrej is the author of The Wall Speaks.
The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame.