By Jerr Rrej,
A man’s social reputation is important. But unlike a woman, a man can rebuild his rep. But what a man must realize is the importance of his first impression on his woman and associates. The starting frame carries the most strength. Read on.
We are either building trust in our frame or building doubt in our frame. When a man begins a relationship unframed, he will be have built up a lot of distrust in his authority. And it is near impossible to regain trust when it is lost.
This is true of all things that a man frames. It could be a teacher and student. It could be a trainer and a dog. It could be a man and his woman. It could be a king and his kingdom. When those under our authority are made to distrust us from the start, it is hard to get back.
The Wall Speaks book is about masculine frame, it teaches how to live with one woman. Frame is not about promiscuity.
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Why are first impressions or the starting frame so important. Because the authority we gain from mystery holds power in the mind of those who have not seen weakness. When a man shows weakness, he is creating doubt in the minds of others.
What a man must admit to himself is that many times it is better to start over than to save a social situation. Only amnesia can truly regain trust in authority when it has been lost. A man should seek new beginnings to start fresh frame with others.
This can mean that a man looks for new friends, looks for a new town to live in, looks for a new relationship with a woman. A man who is reborn must exist the old world. Do not cling tightly to people that refuse to see the new you. They do not have faith in you. Start over.
A man will notice this when he picks up frame. When a man seeks respect over affection, all those who have got accustomed to doubting him and disrespecting him will refuse to change. But listen closely, life is short. Live a life of dignity while you can. Leave the past behind.
Jerr Rrej is the author of The Wall Speaks.
The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame.
