By Jerr Rrej,
Emotion is a woman’s best friend. Women cherish their emotions and moralize them. This sensitivity to emotion feeling is a woman’s worldview. She navigates herself by “following her heart” and attaching herself emotionally to potential mates.
What is emotion? It is sensitivity to the uneasiness of self within. A non-logical state where the sensation of existence turns the stomach in anxious excitement and jumbles the nerves in anticipation to an experience like a drug.
Sound good? To women this sounds good. But emotions swing both ways. A euphoric rush one moment will lead to a void of uncertainty to the next. For every up there is a down. This is why women will be jump from joy to crying all within a day. Rollercoaster of feels
Are emotions illusions? Depends on what the emotion is being used for. For example, The Wall Speaks was written with high empathy for the suffering of young men which inspired me and benefits the quality of the book itself. Artists/writers utilize emotion for creative gain.
But most emotion brings negative consequence to the body. At this point, a man must say “What benefit to reality is this certain emotion? For example, a man may get nostalgic/sentimental by looking at old photos of people in his past. A melancholy will overwhelm him
A man who is overwhelmed by this negative emotion should ask himself what good he is doing by focusing his mind on what brings negativity. If a man stops looking at old photos… maybe stops listening to sad songs and stops drinking alcohol that is a depressant.
The Wall Speaks book is about masculine frame, it teaches how to live with one woman. Frame is not about promiscuity.
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Most times a man brings an emotional focus onto himself. This is frame. And most times we can make little sense of the emotion we are experiencing at the moment. If there is little benefit, a man should avoid activities that make him introspective to negative feeling.
But feminized men will romanticize emotion and even moralize their emotional reality within themselves. For example, a man will be sentimental and then think himself a good person for the sentiment. This is a presumption with little merit.
Once a man understands frame. He will understand that there are two ways to exist and perceive realty. A rational worldview and an emotional worldview. Women by their nature exist in the emotional worldview and unframed men who imitate women exist in this state as well.
The key thing for a man to realize is that he is no more moral for being emotional than he would be for being without emotion. Also, a man must ask himself why he is being emotional and what positive benefit the emotion is bringing him. Most times there is very little rationale
Recently I was listening to emotional music which made me emotional. This is a form of emotion incitation or “Emotional play” — Creatives do this for inspiration but at the time I was not being inspired and so it was needless. Women love “Emotional play” because it gives a rush
When a man is practicing frame, he will exist in low emotion state that fuels high rationality. He steps from the emotional worldview into the rational worldview. He does not moralize emotion and therefore does not gaslight himself into feeling like a “Good person” for being so
The key to bearing frame is to understand two things:
- Emotions are not moral
- Women reward low emotion in men and punish men with high emotion.
This will remind a man that when he is fueling needless emotion in his body is doing himself and his woman little good.
Remember, sitting in a high emotional state is irresponsible to being a man. We say “This is just a drug fueled state from by body. How do I sober up?” — And we ask, “Why do I feel the way I feel?” –Most times little sense can be found, and this allows us to move on in FRAME
Jerr Rrej is the author of The Wall Speaks.
The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame.