Many men have been groomed with the “Just be yourself” mindset. These men laugh, cry and share every little doubt and fear with their women. They believe that honesty builds a connection. But a connection for whom?
A woman is an emotionally driven creature. Every month she is spun into emotional chaos with her hormonal cycle. Her reality is already too much for her to bear. When a man wants a honest connection, he doesn’t realize that he is burdening a woman.
But that is not the only thing he is doing. “Familiarity breeds contempt” The more a man shares his every thought with a woman the more he steals her fantasies. A woman likes to use her feminine intuition like a detective in figuring out her man’s inner reality.
When a man over shares himself, he is depriving a woman of her use of intuition while displaying his emotional dependence on her. In a way, he is grabbing her looking glass and pointing it at himself.
“LOOK AT ME, SEE ME, HEAR ME”
This desperate mindset is not viewed as desperate to most men because they view their women like they view their mothers. They want to be loved for their true and special personalities. But is that loving?
The Wall Speaks book is about masculine frame, it teaches how to live with one woman. Frame is not about promiscuity.
When a man holds back his expression he fuels his woman’s imagination. By suppressing his personality, he shows her that he is emotionally dependent. This sign of masculine strength puzzles a woman. She will begin to wonder about a man’s thoughts.
This obsessive thinking will build an emotional attachment for her with the man. The more she wonders about his mystery the more she wants to spends time figuring out his mystery. Her fantasy about his emotional strength is what pulls her closer to her man, not his real person.
Want to learn more about the dynamics of masculine frame? Now more than ever we need to understand how to be men. The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning how to pick up frame and teaches a man on female psychology.
Jerr Rrej is the author of The Wall Speaks.
The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame.