By Jerr Rrej,
When a man is young, he will try to look for women with similar interests as him. He will think that these women are special and this mindset will make him hold a fear of loss over losing this “special” types of women. Should a man care about a woman’s interests? Read on.
Women rarely attain interests and hobbies on their own. They are introduced to interests/hobbies usually from the men in their lives. If a man finds he has a lot in common with a female, he most likely has a lot in common with her ex, father or brother.
The Wall Speaks book is about masculine frame, it teaches how to live with one woman. Frame is not about promiscuity.
The more a man understands female nature, the more he realizes that a woman aligns her interests and identity with strong male frames that are around her. She will begin to emulate a man’s interests when she feels safe under his frame.
This is why a man should not look for common interests such as hobbies with a woman but rather look to see if she is adopting his interests when they are in a relationship. This proves that she respects his frame and wants to compliment it by copying it.
Carry strong frame always. Only our frame matters in reality. When we carry a strong frame, the world itself bends around us. We do not seek out similar interests in others but rather allow others to seek out our interests. Shoulders back. Chin towards God.
Jerr Rrej is the author of The Wall Speaks.
The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame.