By Jerr Rrej,
The key to unlock what it means to be man is to understand what responsibility means. Once a man knows responsibility, he will see a clear path to his own masculine frame. This thread will explain why. Read on.
What do men most need in our lives? Respect. How do we get respect? Act with authority. How do we act with authority? We take responsibility for ourselves and others. There is no authority without holding responsibility. To seek respect is to take responsibility.
What does it mean to take responsibility for our own self? It means we can no longer blame others for our own behavior. It means we must point the finger of accountability at ourselves and not at what is outside our self.
The major shift from boy to man is when a man no longer blames others for his own behavior. To complain is to confess of powerlessness. To blame others is to give them power over ourselves. When we blame self, we gain power.
The more a man assumes responsibility for himself the more he empowers himself with authority. A man has no one to blame but himself for his own life. This is what it means to own our own lives. We must admit fault in our behavior and seek betterment. No excuses.
The Wall Speaks book is about masculine frame, it teaches how to live with one woman. Frame is not about promiscuity.
This does not mean a man is perfect. I am far from perfect. I make mistakes every day and have my own personal issues to work on. But I do not blame others for my own short comings. I do not blame the father that abandoned me for my suffering. Being a man means to only see self.
There is a saying among redpill accounts of “responsibility without authority is slavery” which is a trick to weaken men. There never can be authority without first assuming responsibility. A man will never gain authority over himself/others unless he first assumes responsibility
A female is designed to blame others and to blame men for her problems. She is designed to give her power away through complaint. The more a woman blames others, the more she disempowers herself and gives them authority.
This is why a man should view women blaming him for everything as a good thing. Leaders get blamed. Those who hold power get blamed. Females empower men by blaming us. It is part of the design which influences their own submission.
Do not expect perfection from me. Do not expect perfection from your own self. Recognize how you can improve and make small steps towards the improvement. We were all born upside down in a dying world. Become something better than before. Shoulders back. Chin towards God.
Jerr Rrej is the author of The Wall Speaks.
The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame.