By Jerr Rrej,
A lot of men in our times believe the lie of equality. They think that a relationship is an equal partnership where there is no leader, dominant and no submissive. These men want to be friends with their women and do want to like power dynamics in romance. They are fools. Read on
Equality is a lie to transfer power. There is not relationship where there is equal authority. A leader and follower dynamic forms regardless if we want it to. This is why a man who is not leading a woman, is being led by a woman.
Women are looking for male leaders in sexual selection. What are the most attractive qualities that women confess to wanting in men? Confidence, assertiveness, boldness and decisiveness. Otherwise known as leadership qualities.
A woman is looking for a leader because a woman is looking for a man she can follow. Why? The core reason is that a woman holds innate doubt of self that seeks a stronger self to align with in order to calm that anxiety. Women look for men who are sure of themselves.
The Wall Speaks book is about masculine frame, it teaches how to live with one woman. Frame is not about promiscuity.
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Because women look for leaders in our sexual selection, this means that they look for men who inspire that leadership. When a follower is inspired to follow, means that follower is respecting and looking up to that leader. The leader represents something the follower wants to be
This is why masculine frame is the greatest foreplay. A man’s frame inspires submission in women because women respect the powerful control of a frame. They wish they had that level of control over emotion and expression and so respect that example.
Carry strong frame. Work on bettering your behaviorism in small ways. Learn to control expression and emotion. We all carry the most respect for leaders who can control themselves. This is an act of power that draws us to them. We happily follow strength. Frame draws women.
Jerr Rrej is the author of The Wall Speaks.
The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame.