A common issue with unframed men in their relationships with their women is that the women control the sex. These women will frequently deny and reject their men sexually with various excuses.
“I have a headache” “I am not in the mood” “I do not feel attractive tonight” — blah blah blah. These are common phrases that women use to slide out of their responsibility to supply their men sex. These women are not sexually aroused by their men and feel burdened by sex.
The Wall Speaks book is about masculine frame, it teaches how to live with one woman. Frame is not about promiscuity.
And the more these women reject their men sexually the less respect they will have for them. It is a problem that fuels the problem further. These women who sexually deny their men will hide their true sexual arousal for other men. Sex goes hidden from view.
What is a man to do when he is being sexually denied in his relationship? Two things. He should not ask for sex but rather initiate sex. A woman gets warmed up for sex during the act. Women easily refuse sex because they have yet to reach the arousal during the act.
When she is adamant about not wanting sex. Withdraw affection and attention. She must realize the trauma she is causing her man not by word but rather emotional frequency. This will cause her to feel uneasy after rejecting the man. A learning lesson.
A man must realize that life is a series of negotiations. And sex inside a relationship is less about “Emotional love” as it is about a man getting his desire through the power of negotiation. And what is the best negotiation tool?
Masculine frame. A woman will naturally fall into submission and focus on pleasing her framed leader of his desires. Sex twice a week? No issue. Sex twice a day? No issue. It is not the woman that matters but only the strength of the man’s frame with the woman.
A woman will compliment herself to the desires of her framed man. She will do whatever he wants. This confuses feminized men who are friends with their women. Framed men get everything they want because of being respected. Women love pleasing framed men and love spoiling them.
Do not let her get away with sexually denying and rejecting you easy. The more she denies the less respect she will have for you. It is paramount to fight for your sexual desires and needs for the greater health of the relationship. And the more she respects, the more she loves.
Jerr Rrej is the author of The Wall Speaks.
The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame.