By Jerr Rrej,
A man may wonder what to do when he catches his woman cheating. When a woman is disloyal and betrays a man can cause him deep pain from emasculation. Men hold great pride that deserves greater respect by women. OUR PRIDE IS HOLY AND A WOMAN WHO CHEATS PROFANES THAT GLORY.
So, what should a man do when he catches his woman cheating? Let us define “Cheating” — There are levels to this. A woman who flirts with other men is cheating on her man. She is disrespecting him by pretending she is available for sexual access. She gets off the attention.
A flirtatious woman may be cheating but the low level of disrespect could be overlooked if corrected. Women who act like they are sexually available while inside relationships are not respecting their men. They playfully seek attention because their men’s frames are weak.
What if a woman has gotten physical with another man? There are levels to this as well. Was it only a kiss? Was there fondling? Was there penetrative sex? Was it one occurrence or multiple? How much responsibility did she take for her actions?
The Wall Speaks book is about masculine frame, it teaches how to live with one woman. Frame is not about promiscuity. – Ekoroi
Some men would say “Dump a disloyal woman” — But we know disloyalty comes in different meanings from low to high. And nobody is living a man’s life but himself. It is his own decision based on the circumstances.
For example, if a man is married with kids and he has been beating his wife who was growing close to a man on the side. He could understand that a woman will feel lost under extreme abuse. Would he be willing to forgive her and change his behavior to keep his family together?
Do you see the complication to keeping a woman around? Sometimes a man encourages his woman to behave badly because he himself has been shrugging frame. A woman needs frame to be loyal. Also, some acts of disloyalty are more disrespectful than others.
A man must weigh how bad the disloyalty is and what is on the line in regard to separation. Sometimes forgiveness can prevent children from being orphaned. And sometimes a family must dissolve because the disrespect against the holy pride was too much to bear.
With that all being said. If a woman has had penetrative sex multiple times with various men, a man should without doubt dissolve the relationship. To stay with a woman who has shown that level of disrespect is beyond redemption. Masculine pride is the most holy thing on earth.
But if a woman is a flirt or messed around with another man, maybe there can be forgiveness. But the key thing is for a man to realize that the women is disrespectful because his frame is weak over her. He needs to strengthen his frame and increase his authority over her.
Also, at the end of The Wall Speaks, I detail a submission therapy that reaffirms a man’s authority over his woman. It subconsciously trains her to see him as the frame over her. It sinks into her mind that respect for masculine pride is divine worship. Sometimes women need help
It’s all a man’s fault – Ekoroi
Jerr Rrej is the author of The Wall Speaks.
The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame.