By Jerr Rrej,
The most common way we solve our anxiety as men and women is by attempting to feel in control over our life and environment. The less control we have over our life, the more anxiety we will feel about it. This is what a man should realize about women in relationships. Read on.
Women are innately anxious creatures. Their high emotionalism makes them sensitive to social shaming. This is how women control each other in their own peer groups. They will use guilt and shame tactics on each other as a way to gain authority over others.
As the physically weak sex in our species, a woman depends on her wits for controlling others. If a woman wants to control a man, she will use emotional manipulation to get authority over him.
The Wall Speaks book is about masculine frame, it teaches how to live with one woman. Frame is not about promiscuity.
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The more sensitive a man becomes in emotion, the easier it will be to control him with emotion. When a man cannot be easily shamed or guilted is a man who cannot be easily controlled by women.
When a man practices masculine frame, he is practicing emotional detachment. He is strengthening his own sense of self which prevents him from caring overly what others think about his sense of self. He validates himself which weakens how others try to control him.
Realize that females wanting control only because she is trying to calm her anxiety. She is using emotion because she is weaker physically. Just see it as a silly attempt for power and dismiss it. Do not let shame and guilt tactics work on you. Be shameless in you authority.
Jerr Rrej is the author of The Wall Speaks.
The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame.
