If a man has experience with women, he will realize that women will purposely test the men they are with. Some women test their men more and some women test their women less but all women test. This thread will explain why women test. Read on.
One reason a woman tests is that she must be reassured that a man’s confidence is based on truth and not an act. A woman will test a man’s patience to see how patience he truly is and how cool he remains under pressure. Women will show disrespect to see how a man deals with it.
The purpose of a female testing her man is that it is a seeking of reassurance. If the man passes a test, he displays competence of authority which calms the woman’s innate anxiety. A woman wants a calm and confident leader to submit to but she needs to test to calm herself.
The Wall Speaks book is about masculine frame, it teaches how to live with one woman. Frame is not about promiscuity.
The key thing a man must remember is that all women occasionally disrespect and test. This is part of female design. It is up to the man to be above the testing and to be quick on correcting a woman who falls out of line with disrespectful behavior.
Some women test more than others because some women are more distrustful of male authority either from absent or weak fathers. They test more because they need more reassurance than women who were raised with strong fathers they respected.
Passing tests is a daily, weekly and continual part of a relationship with a female. Remember, women test men to reassure themselves. A man who stays calm and yet stands up for himself will pass the test and calm his female into contented submission. Stay framed men.
“Our forgotten generation of fatherless men had to learn frame the hard way. Frame is essential for living a dignified life as a man. The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame”
Jerr Rrej is the author of The Wall Speaks.
The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame.