By Jerr Rrej,
A man will notice the longer he experiences women that they will gossip and slander his reputation when relationship problems arise or when the relationship ends. This thread will explain. Read on.
Women are hyper aware of social status and most fear excommunication from groups. They depend on groupthink to regulate their emotions and stabilize their sense of self. Isolation is there greatest fear and that is why they use it as a tool in conflict.
There are two situations where a woman will drag a man’s name through mud. Firstly If she cares for a man, she will still vent her negative emotions to her friends who will inflate their own imaginations about him and will share that negative image to others through gossip.
This gossip will turn to slander as the inflation of meaning from over imaginings leads the female friends to embellish the original ventings and increase the drama. All of this happens even if a female cares about a man she has issues with.
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On the other side, if a woman truly despises a man, she will purposely spread personal information about him as a way to isolate him from family/friends. She wants him to be excluded from his social network as a way to punish him with her own greatest fear.
What a man needs to realize is that social reputations are important. This is why libel is against the law in many countries and why slander/gossip is viewed as sin within religions. Destroying a reputation has major negative effects that follow for life.
But thankfully, a man’s social reputation holds less meaning than a woman’s social reputation. Women tend to overlook a man’s past in romance which means that he will be able to still succeed in sexual selection. This is different for women.
Listen closely, a man has himself and that is more than enough. The world loves a comeback story and loves men who redeem themselves. Men are better equipped at rebuilding their lives and reputation. We are more forgiven for bad histories. Keep moving forward. Chin towards God.
Jerr Rrej is the author of The Wall Speaks.
The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame.
