By Jerr Rrej,
If a man lives long enough and has enough experience with women, he will have at least one heartbreak. This thread will go into depth on what a man should realize about carrying this emotional pain. Read on.
A heart can only break when someone lets us down. This comes from emotional attachment and dependency. The more a man relies on someone, the more he will become dependent on them.
What a man needs to realize is that emotions mean what ever the hell we want them to mean. They can either by meaningless or most meaningful. Love means whatever we want it to mean.
The Wall Speaks book is about masculine frame, it teaches how to live with one woman. Frame is not about promiscuity.
A man only relies on a woman for emotional comfort when he is weak. He has surrendered his power to her and when she forsakes him, she leaves with his power. This was his fault for giving it away in weakness.
A man should never rely on his woman emotionally. He needs to be her rock and rocks are cold. This means a man must stay above emotion and stay detached. And he needs to realize that females are more the same than different.
There is no such thing as a “one and only” There is no such thing as an irreplaceable female. There is countless women in this world and if a woman does not want to be with a man, she gives him opportunity for others.
Why does a man cry? Because he is weak. What are tears but weakness leaking out?
Stop be emotional like a woman or a lost child looking for momma. Be framed. Be cold. Be detached. Stay hard. A man has himself and that is more than enough.
Jerr Rrej is the author of The Wall Speaks.
The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame.