By Jerr Rrej
Before we go into discussion on why a man should stop watching porn, let us discuss the morality of porn viewing. I don’t care if a man likes looking at pictures of naked women. That is healthy to be attracted to the beauty of women and to be aroused by women getting fucked.
But porn is unhealthy for men. Why? Think about how the cock rises. What makes a cock hard and what makes a cock rise? There are biological reasons but let us focus on the psychological reasons. A cock rises from certainty of arousal and imagination.
Will and imagination. This increases the blood flow into the cock and creates the tower of our erotic dreams. We imagine our fantasy and we become flushed in spirit. This creates arousal and hardens our cock. The stronger our imagination for sex, the greater the power of our cock.
The Wall Speaks book is about masculine frame, it teaches how to live with one woman. Frame is not about promiscuity.
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What is porn? It is fantasy revealed and exposed. An outpouring from exposed vulgarity into our eye. And what is the greatest trigger for arousal in a man? The eye. Porn floods the eye with sex and atrophies our erotic imagination.When a man is obsessively watching porn is like a man who obsessively uses crutches. After long, he will become dependent on the crutches as his muscles begin to wither from disuse. Same for porn. It weakens a man’s erotic imaginative abilities and makes him wither in decay.
This desensitization to arousal will soften a man’s cock and lead to erectile dysfunction. This is when porn becomes self-harming to a man’s sexual health. It is doubt in sexual power. To make the cock hard and to rise take BELIEF. Belief in our imagination.
What can a man do if his cock is softening from obsessive porn viewing? He must protect his eye. He must avoid sexual media to re-sensitize his eye to erotic feeling. This will cause him to increase his arousal by denying himself the crutch. Muscle training.
After a time of protecting his eye, he can test his cock health by getting hard from only imagination and his own touch. This will cause him to practice his erotic imagination by summoning the will to rise and harden. And he can keep his aroused stay going by inner fantasy alone
I am not encouraging a man to climax. Men who climax sexually in masturbation waste their energy. This energy is best spent in sex with a woman. I am suggesting that a man strengthen his erotic imagination without climax. This will help him overcome ED (Erectyle Dysfunction) .
Avoid porn. Strengthen the imagination. The cock is dependent on erotic imagination and confidence in will. Another reason men have ED is that they have performance anxiety. Be confident in what sexually pleases you and act upon it without anxiety. Women share a man’s confidence.
Jerr Rrej is the author of The Wall Speaks .
The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame.
