By Jerr Rrej
Before we begin a discussion on polarity in a sexual sense, we must define what it means. Polarity used means opposition but in attraction as in magnetism. Two different positions that stand apart and yet are pulled together as in feminine to masculine.
An explanation of masculine/feminine polarity requires us to define the differences between male and female. A woman is biologically more vulnerable than a man due to her hormonal monthly shifting and incapacity during pregnancy. This is the base point we can think upon.
Since a woman is battling her hormone fueled emotional state, she innately desires a man who is able to transcend and control his emotions. A woman’s emotional rollercoaster experience creates a feeling of uncertainty within her. This causes her to desire a man of great certainty
A female is captive by her biology and seeks the polar opposite which the male of our species who not contained by the same imprisonments. But sexual attraction is not the simple. Why?
Because although the male of our species is not imprisoned by his biology like the female, he can be imprisoned by psychology that creates a false imprisonment that resembles the cage of the female. This deflates his polarity as his mating ritual begins to mimic the female.
“Nice guys” are sexual selection mimics (Lacking polarity) not because they have biological restraints but because they listen to women who tell them to act like women to attract them which disrupts the polarity necessary for attraction.
The Wall Speaks book is about masculine frame, it teaches how to live with one woman. Frame is not about promiscuity. – Ekoroi
“Nice guys” act the way they do, not because they are pure spirits but because they view it as the best strategy in their sexual selection. It is a masked trick and that is why women view “Nice guys” as bigger creeps than jerks. Women are correct.
Women innately seek their biological opposite and that means “Emotionally stable and strong certainty of self” What does certainty-of-self mean? It means to be independent in thought and will. It to believe in self enough to disobey others. A leader’s mind.
From a woman’s biologically fueled uncertainty, she will seek the false confidence of a “Jerk” than the false humility of a “Nice guy” who moralizes his self-doubt. She seeks a man to lead her from her doubt. Do not take it personally. It is the biological framework
Now let us explain what happens when a man is emotional/ruled by doubt. A woman will shift her polarity away from him but in resentment. She will become cold/certain. It is against her biology and causes her to feel anger in this irresponsibleness of her male to bear that burden
That is why unframed men create cruel women. A woman is whatever a man is not. Women form themselves around us. We position ourselves and women align with us like in a dance. That is why soft men create hardened women and hardened men create soft women. We control polarity.
Masculine frame is when a man overcomes the feminine frame of authority (Certainty of self) and lowers his emotion through restraint of expression. This creates a opposite effect to a woman’s innate biological state of high emotion/doubt that informs her sexual selection.
Jerr Rrej is the author of The Wall Speaks.
The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame.
