By Jerr Rrej,
Before we go into discussion on what a man should be doing after breakup/rejection, let us discuss the pain of being a man. Women by in large only give sexual attention to a few top men. This means that most men are frequently rejected and invisible sexually.
This can be hurtful to a man’s esteem and create a feeling of despair within him. We live in an age where feminists encourage sexual pride to every eccentric sexuality and yet heterosexual men are not encouraged to have pride.
Listen closely. It is essential that a man have sexual pride in his organism of self. Opting out of sexual competition is accepting defeat. We have PRIDE and we have self-esteem. Every man deserves to capture sexual interest of a woman and to have a sexual life.
Since women are rejecting/ignoring most men means that we must have a thick skin to this process. We must emotionally detach from sexual selection and proceed with cold rationality. We must improve our sexual pride daily.
Opting out of sexual competition because of rejection/being ignored is surrender to challenge of human existence. This opt-out to a “Monk mode” will signal self-loathing in our subconscious mind and corrupt out behavior. A form of delusion.
The Wall Speaks book is about masculine frame, it teaches how to live with one woman. Frame is not about promiscuity.
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Sexual pride is to join the competition and not surrender our consciousness into low self-esteem. Take time for reflection and to refocus but do not surrender sexual pride.
To be a man is to lead a woman. And women need masculine leadership more than ever. FOCUS on improving sexual interactions with women and get better at those interactions. Practice frame, gain muscle mass and figure out masculine ambition.
Frame will lower emotion and will raise rationality. This is essential in being detached during the high rejection phase of dating. Frame also helps a man to control his anxiety while living alone and while with a woman in the dating process. This cold distance is essential.
Women are just as sexually aroused by looks than men. But whereas men are attracted to youth/beauty, women are attracted to men who project strong protection. This is why it is key to build muscle mass to fulfil the protector role which increases arousal in women.
Women are attracted to men who have ambition because women innately crave men who can provide. A man must pursue a money-making strategy to fulfil that role. Provider-ship was fulfilled in the past by hunting but now we make money.
But here is the key thing to all these elements. They are not for the woman; they are for the man himself. A man practices the ancient discipline of frame to stabilize himself of negative emotion and to seek respect from the world. Respect is essential to being a man.
A man lifts weights not for women but because he wants to strengthen his body. He wants to grow strong so he can defend himself and his tribe. Working out is for the man alone. Exercise and weightlifting are great ways to handle stress while projecting strength that gets respect.
Masculine ambition will care for a man as he ages. Nobody takes care of a man. In fact, when a man cannot take care of himself, his woman will leave him, and his family will dissolve. Ambition is key for a man to care for himself until the end. A man’s greatest meaning is work.
YOU ARE NOT ALONE. Being a man is goddamn tough and requires strength. Detach from the negative emotions and stay proud. BE SEXUALLY PROUD. Focus on frame, muscles and ambition. Improve in small steps every day and you will reach the apex of your masculine glory.
The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine and book of male empowerment. Frame is essential to being a man and allows a man to get the respect he deserves.
Jerr Rrej is the author of The Wall Speaks.
The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame.
