By Jerr Rrej,
The feeling of aloneness can rob a man of joy. But just like all feelings it can be managed and rationalized away. What does it mean to feel alone? A man can be in the middle of a group of friends and still feel its sting.
I have always been a lone wolf. From a young age I have been raised in severe seclusion. My mother homeschools me and did not socialize me properly. This has caused me to not seek association like I may should.
And every once in a while, a deep loneliness pours over me. A feeling of doubt will shake me to the core. This is a momentary feeling that sometimes overwhelms me. Have you had this feeling as well at times? This is an illusion.
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We cast off the feelings by focusing the mind on work. There is always much work to do. And we rationalize the feeling away. Why? Because a lonely feeling is just a feeling and feelings can be managed with frame.
A man may feel overwhelmed not because reality has it truly overwhelming as much as it FEELS overwhelming. This can be due to the man becoming weak in his internal fortitude. When a man’s mental fortress weakens, the surrounding chaos will touch him.
Internal fortitude weakening can be due to over reliance on external validation for our emotional regulation. And due to alcohol/ drug consumption that alters our emotional control while atrophying our fortitude like crutches to muscles. The world feels rough the softer we get.
Recognize the feeling for what it is and rationalize it away. FOCUS on positive work. FOCUS on ambition. Get stronger in body through sobriety. Get stronger through mind through FRAME. Use the feelings for energy towards ambition. Keep the chin up.
Jerr Rrej is the author of The Wall Speaks.
The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame.
