By Jerr Rrej
A woman is innately vulnerable. This causes an unframed man to think “She is vulnerable, therefore I must be sensitive with her” This logic will make a man think he must be soft because she is soft.
Matching softness to softness is like matching a woman with a woman. But do women sexually crave to be with each other, or do they seek out what is different to them? We know that opposites attract. So matching softness to softness is counterproductive to sexual attraction.
Why would a woman who is emotional vulnerable want to be dominated by an emotionally strong man? Because a woman wants to be wrapped tight in a man’s certainty of self. It is a comforting blanket of protection against her own doubt.
A woman’s sexual nature is based on uneasy excitement and submission. Let us break this apart. “Uneasy excitement” causes a woman to lubricate herself for penetration. A woman’s sexual nature is aroused by arousing her uncertainty. Sex and fear are close together.
What makes a woman feel uncertain and therefore aroused? A man’s certainty of self and confidence in his own pleasure creates doubt in the woman and this doubt causes her to be flushed in sexual delight. She becomes flushed by the mystery of desire outside herself.
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After she is flushed by this uneasy feeling. Her body becomes lubricated for penetration by the male. She submits herself to the man’s pleasure and becomes the “sexual receiver” or submissive one. Her design is to submit to male dominance.
A woman during the sex act wants to lose her sense of self and be consumed by the man. The greater her loss of self the greater the sexual pleasure. Why? Because a woman must lose control to orgasm. Fear of loss of control is what prevents her orgasm.
“Loss of control” is the key to getting a woman to sexually climax. But a man must remember that sex starts outside the bedroom. Sex is everywhere. The greater a man makes his woman feel “Dominated” or make her surrender he control, the greater the sexual arousal.
We think first about the sex act because a relationship revolves around sexual attraction. Otherwise just be friends with the woman. And sex starts outside the bedroom. The more dominant a man makes his presence, the more his woman will feel safe to lose control with him.
This is why feminized men should not feel guilty in being a dominant force around a woman. It is sexual foreplay, not cruelty. Women love to be sexually dominated and this dominance must start before the sex act.
A man who has a dominant and proud frame is a man who is giving a woman what she craves but would never say. Remember, frame is watching what a woman rewards with her body and not obeying feminine speech. A woman rewards male dominance with her own sexual pleasure.
But a woman only wants to be dominated by a framed man. She does not want to be dominated by an unframed man because a woman wants to submit to a man who deserves respect. She does not want to submit to another woman. Be dominant and proud. Lead her in every room of the house.
Jerr Rrej is the author of The Wall Speaks.
The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame.