By Jerr Rrej
Being alone and living alone can be a challenge to a man. We all have feelings of alienation and loneliness from time to time. But let us discuss what is the feeling of loneliness truly means. Because we rationalize our feelings as men and this helps us to solve uneasy problems.
A man will become lonely when he is deprived of emotional validation from others. This is why some men get lonelier than other men. Because some men need more external validation for their emotions than other men.
Men who overly dependent on external validation for their emotional states become addicted to association with others. They use others to reassure themselves. These men become accustomed to talking about their doubts and concerns in order to hear feedback to reassure them.
When a man lowers his need for external validation is a man who lowers his feelings of loneliness when he is separated from that contact. We can lower feelings of loneliness by lowing that need. When a man trains himself to rely on his own validation lowers his need for others.
The Wall Speaks book is about masculine frame, it teaches how to live with one woman. Frame is not about promiscuity.
Ekoroi
How can a man increase his own independent validation of his emotional state? Practicing solitude strengthens the inner voice. It builds inner fortitude and allows a man to accustom himself to his own validation separate from others.
Most times when a man is feeling lonely, he will seek out external validation to relieve himself of that uneasy feeling. But if he did the opposite which is to deny himself that release and to sit with himself until the feelings go away; he will grow stronger in frame.
Another reason a man will feel lonely is when he is not taking care of himself. Men who drink alone, who do not exercise and who isolate themselves with porn are practicing disbelief in self. And this practice of disbelief will sink into the subconscious mind.
We act in ways that reassures our minds that we believe in ourselves. And this requires acting in self-love through discipline. When a man disciplines himself with self-love will sink into himself and flip his mind to that thought. Practice true love of self with positive action.
The Wall Speaks book is about masculine frame, it teaches how to live with one woman. Frame is not about promiscuity. – Ekoroi
Jerr Rrej is the author of The Wall Speaks.
The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame.
