Masculinity: A framed man is an “Amused stone”

In my book The Wall Speaks I speak about how men need to be “Amused stones” – This thread will go into depth about the meaning behind this presentation of self. What does it mean to be amused and what does it mean to be a stone?

When a man lowers his expression, he will put up a “Wall” over his inner reality. Why do women like men will “Walls” covering their secret intent and motive? Because a walled continence increases the power of negotiation and inspires mystery.

A man who is framed or “Walled” is a man who projects mystery that fuels his power. Two elements’ women sexually crave in men. This low expression state fuels a woman’s sexual arousal because it is anti-feminine. This opposite in polarity of presentation creates attraction.

When a man first picks up frame, his presentation will be stiff and concrete. This extreme non expression will project weakness rather than strength to women. Why? Because extreme non expression makes a man robotic and robs him of any charisma.

The Wall Speaks book is about masculine frame, it teaches how to live with one woman. Frame is not about promiscuity.


This is why a man who after practicing frame will begin to master “Micro expression” and become more of an AMUSED STONE and less of a concrete block. Remember, a little goes a long way. And giving clues to inner thought is what incites a woman’s imagination.

A woman wants a mysterious man because she wants to use her feminine intuition to unpack the mystery with her imagination. And a man who grins wide leaves little mystery while a man who smirks slight fuels mystery. This is amused stone.

Giving something amusing a small laugh or a small smile are clues to feeling. And those clues incite a woman’s interest because she must figure out the man herself. Unframed men over express which reveals too much of their selves and kills mystery.

That is why when a man gets greater authority over himself by practicing frame, he will be able to master “micro expression” — This subtlety in expression shows his mastery of self and reaffirms his authority while keeping his woman invested with her imagination.

Jerr Rrej is the author of The Wall Speaks.

The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame.