By Jerr Rrej,
One of biggest reasons why relationships begin to fall apart is when a woman senses that a man is jealous of other men. A lot of guys will get possessive and will act jealous with women. This thread will discuss the dangers of male jealousy. Read on.
Let us breakdown what “possessive” and “jealous” mean in a sexual relationship. Both are expressions of anxiety. When a man tries to possess a woman, he is trying to force her desire for him. This is a state of fear that motivates his behavior, and a woman can sense that fear.
When a man is jealous of another man, he is showcasing his lack of confidence and anxiety. He projects to a woman that he fears that another man is better than him and that the other male will lure the woman away from him. This is a strong projection of fear that a woman senses.
The Wall Speaks book is about masculine frame, it teaches how to live with one woman. Frame is not about promiscuity.
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What a man needs to realize is that being possessive and jealous are both actions from anxiety and fear. It is weakness and women punish all weakness in a man. This is why the more possessive and jealous a man gets in a relationship, the faster the relationship will fall apart.
To be jealous of another man and to be possessive of a single woman is to be beggar. It is a fear of loss from a sense of desperation. Women are not attracted to desperate men. They are attracted to men who have strong sense of themselves and who display abundance of confidence.
When a man has strong frame, he does not need to be controlling with a woman, the woman will controll herself for him. A framed man does not need to possess a woman, she possesses herself for him. He never shows jealousy for another man because there is nothing to gain from it.
Remember, that a woman wants to be held in hands, but that grip cannot be too relaxed or too tight. The way a man frames a woman should never project anxiety or fear. It should always come from a place of abundance. This will keep a woman around because she rewards male strength.
Jerr Rrej is the author of The Wall Speaks.
The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame.