By Jerr Rrej
Many men are plagued by doubt, anxiety and fear. Why? Because they doubt their own authority and the authority above them. They exist in reality like lost boys in a grocery store who are separated from their mommas. Their bodies shake from the fear of being alive
Even men who think they are above the fear are betrayed by their own bodies. They run so as not to be caught. They talk fast so as not to be interrupted. They eat fast so their food is not stolen before they eat it. They speedily go through life because they fear life.
It is not good enough to believe. We must prove our belief through works. This is masculine frame. Our behaviorism is what calms our internal state. Act calm to feel calm. Actions are rituals of belief. When we slow our behaviorism is how we slow our thoughts. Kings move slow.
A lot of guys are lonely, and guilt ridden. These are the same thing. These men feel doubt about themselves. They cannot bear the load of their own existence. They feel anxiety unless other people are reassuring them. They are like small boys with their mommas. Weakness.
Are you afraid? I will reassure you. Are you guilty? I will carry your sin. Are you anxious? Be calm. See? This is the power of masculine frame. It is like parent to child. A parent bears the burden of the child even if the parent does not have all the answers.
This is the frame of authority. This is the frame of God. What does it mean to be without a father? It means a man must become his own father. He must reassure himself. He must be the certain one in reality. Not just for himself but for others.
Once a man understands the responsibility of authority, he will see weakness as irresponsible. To show anxiety is to spread anxiety. To doubt self is to make others doubt themselves. The leader must lead in belief. Doubt, anxiety and fear are for followers.
The Wall Speaks book is about masculine frame, it teaches how to live with one woman. Frame is not about promiscuity.
Think about power like a staircase to heaven. Each step we take raises us to new authority. The higher we go the more we are able to look down on others. They are below us and in need of a leader that can show them the way forward. The farther up we go the smaller people become.
And why allow an ant to make you doubt yourself? See? Raise the frame of authority above them all. Be free of the shame they want to pass you. Be free of the guilt they want to give you. Be free of the doubt they want to share with you. Rise above them all.
What does it mean to be alone? Listen. It is lonely at the top. Think about power like a pyramid. The farther up the pyramid of power the less room for others there will be. The top of the pyramid is a single place for one person. To be leader is to be alone.
Most cannot handle the strength of self-necessary for being at the top. They would rather be reassured at the bottom of the pyramid where there is most company in doubt. A young boy will stay under his momma’s frame because he fears letting go of her frame of reassurance.
Practice solitude. There is truly only your own voice in your head. Let that voice grow certain and strong. Let your eyes become like tiger eyes looking out from a bush. Cold and calculating. Detached and thirsty. This is masculine frame. Guilt, anxiety and fear are illusions.
I do not doubt myself. I make others doubt themselves. I do not let anyone make me feel guilty, I make others feel guilt I am the leader of this entire world. I exist at the top of the pyramid. I do not feel alone because my frame of authority is above everyone. This is frame.
The longer I exist on earth the more I realize that emotion is unnecessary for life. Emotion is encouraged because it allows manipulation of emotion. If I wanted to control you, I will spike your emotions. The pain you feel in your gut is my gain. See? FREE YOURSELF OF EMOTION.
Jerr Rrej is the author of The Wall Speaks.
The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame.