By Jerr Rrej
What does it mean to be nice? It means to reassure others of their emotional doubt through kindness. The more men are conditioned to be in emotional doubt, the more they will rely on the kindness of others for their own sense of self.
Most times when a man is “nice” to other men is because niceness is a display of harmlessness. It is a way to signal to other men that he is in a submissive state that is non-threatening to their sexual selection.
This is not to say that men cannot be nice to each other. This is to say that a man should not be nice in a weak-willed way to everyone around him. The niceness of a “Nice guy” is a projection of cowardice to avoid confrontation.
This is one reason that women do not respect nice guys. Another reason is that women know that a man will be nice with them only because he is showcasing harmlessness in order to secure sexual selection. He wants to have sex with them at the core of his behaviors and acts nice.
When a nice guy is in a relationship with a woman he will “Make love” only because he fears acting upon his desire to fuck. His woman knows this is yet again an act of cowardice on his part which aligns with his “Nice Guy” persona.
The Wall Speaks book is about masculine frame, it teaches how to live with one woman. Frame is not about promiscuity.
The basis for a nice guy is his overwhelming cowardice to confrontation. He avoids confrontation over his true reality within because he is frozen behind a smiling mask. It is a spirit of agreeableness that is based on lies and deception. Women know these men are fake and weak
How can a man go from nice to framed? He must not be in a constant state of reassuring others of his harmlessness. He should not fear confrontation and he should not fear upsetting other people’s emotional states. He does not need to smile for others. He can remain unexpressive.
The less a man expresses his inner reality on his face the more he allows himself to be free of a nice guy grin. This type of man must start focusing on seeking RESPECT OVER AFFECTION. We are men, we want respect and leave love to women and children.
Also, another way for a man to alter his nice guy persona is to not overly indulge in nice guy entertainment. A man can go from listening to emotional music to listening to low emotion music like death metal. This change in media will reaffirm his state of mind.
Jerr Rrej is the author of The Wall Speaks.
The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame.