By Jerr Rrej
On masculinity Twitter there is a lot of encouragement for men to get jacked. A lot of male empowerment Twitter will focus on a man’s physical appearance. How much should a man worry about his body? This thread will explain. Read on.
A woman’s burden of performance in our sexual selection is based on her physical beauty. We do not care if a woman is rich or that she is popular or that she has ambition. We care about a woman’s age and beauty.
The reason why men care about a woman’s beauty is that it is a physical display of fertility. Our unconscious decision making in sexual selection compels men to look for females that hold the most eggs and that means looking for youth/health.
A man’s burden of performance is much greater and varied than a woman’s burden. Men must make money, learn leadership skills, have ambition and have status. But do they also need to work on their bodies?
The Wall Speaks book is about masculine frame, it teaches how to live with one woman. Frame is not about promiscuity.
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Yes but to a degree. Men must be protectors and need to display there virility. A man’s arms and shoulders project protection while his flat stomachs project’s virility. These are key body aspects that improve his sexual selection.
But what a man needs to realize is that he does not need to overly worry about his appearance like a female. A man can be fatter and uglier than a woman but still win her over with his other burdens of performance.
It doesn’t matter if a man is fat, short and bald, if he has game/frame he can overcome those shortcomings. The privilege of being a man is we are not burdened with physical appearance only like women. We can over compensate in other areas.
Men should not take pride in fat guts and men should lift weights. But more importantly, men should not be body obsessed and vain like women. Carry frame. Be strong in body and mind. Remember, all physical shortcomings can be overcome.
Jerr Rrej is the author of The Wall Speaks.
The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame.