By Jerr Rrej,
Frame is not permanent. A man can lose frame in a relationship and a man can regain that frame. But let us breakdown what a man’s frame means to a woman before we begin this discussion. Frame is trust in authority.
When a man loses his frame in a relationship what he is doing is inspiring distrust in his authority. It is a show of weakness that creates distrust. Trust and distrust are the key words. When a man starts with a strong frame in a relationship, the woman has no reason to distrust
But when a man drops frame, he has shown his weakness and created distrust. Can a woman forget about a man’s weakness? Can a man rebuild trust in his masculine authority? This thread will explain whether or not this is possible.
A man can lose frame in a relationship for man different reasons. He could fall into a depression and become emotional for various reasons. This could cause him to become emotionally dependent on his woman. She will see him as a scared boy and not a man.
What a man must understand about frame is that a woman wants to depend on it being consistent and strong through hard times. It is not a man losing his job that matters most but whether or not he loses his confidence that matters most. It is the mojo that a woman relies upon.
When a man goes through a hard time, this can make him go soft. He will lose confidence and his mojo. His strong frame will drop which will show him as scared and anxious about reality. The woman’s innate anxiety will spike and she will assume authority over her man.
This loss of trust in his power will make her trust her own power over him. This will make her emboldened in her own confidence over his display of doubt. She will carry his frame while looking for another man to ease that burden. This is human nature.
Can a man regain trust in his authority? This depends on the situation of the man. A man can harden his masculine frame which will have a positive effect. Females can be influenced by frame always. Strong frame has a subconscious influence on females.
The Wall Speaks book is about masculine frame, it teaches how to live with one woman. Frame is not about promiscuity.
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But women never truly forget a man’s weakness. This is the sad truth. This is why a man who displays weakness will begin to see a woman increase her shit testing. His weakness triggered testing because her doubt in his authority overwhelms her primitive fears.
This is why men say a woman has too much “Emotional baggage” — What this means is that a woman has been highly conditioned to distrust men’s authority in romance. She will be annoyingly high in disrespectful behavior because men have failed her.
This can be seen in animals that require frame. How does a dog act after it has been abused by humans? Will it require more patience in its training? Will it require strong and consistent frame more than a dog that has not been abused? Of course.
Should a man continue in a relationship with a woman that refuse to trust his authority? This is up to the man. Sometimes a man will sacrifice his happiness for a duty to his children. But most times, it is in the man’s best interests to start anew with a woman with less baggage.
We all make mistakes with frame. Frame is a daily battle and life will throw us extremely challenging circumstances. Strengthen frame with a woman but do not feel that you must put up with a woman who refuses to trust you. TRUST IS ESSENTIAL to a caring relationship.
Life is short. Living a dignified life should be important for each man. And to live with dignity is to have a relationship with a woman who respects our leadership and authority. Do not easily give up on a woman but more importantly; never give up on your own dignity.
Our forgotten generation of fatherless men had to learn frame the hard way. Frame is essential for living a dignified life as a man. The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame – Jerr Rrej
Jerr Rrej is the author of The Wall Speaks.
The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame.