By Jerr Rrej,
This thread will go into detail about how a woman can make a man’s life more challenging than it needs to be and possibly even ruin that life. A lot of men are with disrespectful women, and this has a deeper effect on their reality than they know.
Let us breakdown what disrespect means a romantic relationship. A woman who disrespects her man is a woman who showcases disbelief in his authority. It is a showing of doubt in his dignity and leadership. How can this display of doubt ruin a man’s life? Keep reading.
How does a woman respect a man to his face, behind his back and before others? Think about what it means for a woman to roll her eyes when her man speaks? She is showing her disrespect (Doubt in his authority) over his speech.
A man may think that this small disrespectful behavior is not important but let us think deeply on how this will affect how others besides the woman herself will begin to treat the man. If a woman shows she lacks respect for her man, this allows others to join her.
If a man has children, his children will learn to doubt the authority of their father because of the lack of respect shown by their mother. Each roll of the eyes, each insult, each time their mother disobeys the wishes of her husband will influence their children to do the same.
Simple disrespects accumulate and build. If a woman lacks trust in her man’s authority, she will spread this distrust like a social contagion. Her dismissive views towards her man will embolden others against him. She can turn friends and family against him.
All a woman has is reputation. This is because a woman is reliant on her social network for her emotional wellbeing and survival. A major reason that a woman will passive aggressively attack a man’s reputation when the relationship is failing. It is her innate weapon in life.
Since a woman depends on the collective for survival, she will find subtle ways to show that she is in danger from having a weak leader. Many women are unconscious of this behavior. A female will let her social network know that she is anxious about having a weak leader.
Rolling of the eyes, sarcastic remarks and venting of indignation are all ways a woman can let others know that she is doubting her man’s authority. This can happen in front of a man in public or behind his back. His woman becomes a negative cheerleader against him gaining trust.
The Wall Speaks book is about masculine frame, it teaches how to live with one woman. Frame is not about promiscuity.
What a man must realize is that a respectful female helps to capture trust in others while a disrespectful female will undermine a man gaining trust in others. A man with a Jezabel will notice that others will begin to shit test him more than normal. She is fueling it.
A supportive wife/girlfriend represents a united front that spikes respect in the man’s authority. The man’s children will be more like to obey his authority and their social network will be more apt to trust the man’s authority. A woman who respects make a man’s life easier.
What a man must realize is that small disrespects build to bigger disrespects. And keeping a disrespectful woman around is not just low self-esteem but creating a storm of shit tests that could be avoided. A Jezabel will try to sour everyone against a man.
Realize that if a woman disrespects a man to his face, then she is one hundred percent teaching others to disrespect him behind his back. This will ruin a man’s reputation and embolden his enemies against him. Life is hard enough without living with a negative cheerleader.
This is why a man must learn to earn respect from carrying strong frame. And why he should be immediate in protecting his dignity with a woman. Do not put up with eye rolls, sarcasm and lack of respect. It will build in your woman and will end up consuming your entire life.
Jerr Rrej is the author of The Wall Speaks.
The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame.