What a man should know about controlling women

By Jerr Rrej

With the breakdown of monogamy in civilization that leaves many women living on their own, we have seen a rise in “Strong, independent women” who have learned to rely upon themselves. This separation between the sexes has created females who fear to surrender power to men.

What a man must understand about female nature is that a woman gets most sexual pleasure through surrendering control in the sex act. But that surrender of control must be earned. It is the willing surrender to a more dominant frame that brings most pleasure to women.

A woman is designed to test a man’s frame to see whether or not he is worthy to submit to. If a man is easily controlled or is easily made to doubt himself is all failures in sexual selection. When a man is dominated by a woman, she will lose interest in him sexually.

The more controlling a woman is with a man, the more she craves him to control her. What a man must understand about women is that they all want to be dominated in sex and led in relationships. A domineering and controlling female require an even more domineering man.

This brings us to what a man must realize when he notices that a woman fear giving up control and starts doing a high amount of shit tests early in an approach. She is craving a man who cannot be easily controlled, and show can pass her testing with charisma.

But one thing a man must keep in mind is that battles may be lost while winning a war. It is not one compromise that matters but who compromises more. See? It is who makes more power gains to gain control. This is the key thing to remember with women. We can walk them back.

The Wall Speaks book is about masculine frame, it teaches how to live with one woman. Frame is not about promiscuity.


Also, what a man should remember is to be playful in dismissing a woman’s attempt to control. This can be done by ignoring a question or by ignoring a suggestion. The dismissal is a playful way to power gain. When a woman refuses to be dismissed in small ways can be a red flag.

For example, if a man is asking a woman a question and he moves the conversation forward; a stubborn woman will assume the lead by ignoring his next question by asking him to answer it. Or if a woman dismisses a man’s question altogether by asking another is a red flag.

Men need to realize that a dominant woman is only dominant because men have failed her. She became dominant by being fatherless or by easily controlling sex starved simps. She has gotten used to controlling men. But she will become highly aroused by the man she cannot control

Carry a strong frame. Assume authority over all women and especially the dominant ones. Do not let women lead you on dates or in a relationship. Be the leader. Seek power and control. This will make a woman aroused and will increase attraction. It is how we are designed.

Jerr Rrej is the author of The Wall Speaks.

The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame.